Day 10

I can’t remember the last time I called somebody an idiot or a moron.  My problem is that I’m much more passive aggressive.  I can make people feel stupid by a roll of my eyes or by body language.  My non-verbal communication can be as destructive to relationships as physical violence.  Psychological violence doesn’t heal quickly either.  Jesus’ statements in Matthew 5:21-24 don’t let me off the hook.  I could tell myself that I’m following the letter of Jesus’ words (I’ve never called someone ‘Raca’), but the spirit of Jesus’ words are about destruction of my brother or sister–no matter what form it takes (murder, anger, strong language, non-verbal communication).  The important thing is making (and keeping) good relationships.  And that requires honesty and humility and frequent apologies.