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“Contemplate Your Navel”

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“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.” Psalm 139:15 (New International Version)

Back in 2004, I wrote short sketches (known as the “Lisa and Mary Plays”) that would introduce themes for our worship service. One of the sketches was titled, “Contemplate Your Navel.” Written for Mother’s Day, Lisa and Mary have a conversation over a cup of coffee about their complicated relationship with their mothers and with mothering their own children. Maybe you can relate. How does one fulfill the command to “honor your father and mother” when their parenting skills do more harm than good, and you are left with deep wounds? Lisa has an interesting suggestion. Here’s the script.

Mary and Lisa find a table at the “Royal Pancake House” and get settled. The waiter arrives and begins to pour them coffee.

Lisa: (To the waiter) So do you have any of your famous brownies this week to go with the coffee?

Waiter: Sorry, we sold out. But we have a lunch special—liver and onions.

Lisa:: I’ll just have coffee.

Mary: Me too. (The waiter exits) We need to find a new restaurant.

Waiter: I heard that! (Lisa and Mary giggle.)

Mary: So, what are Frank and the kids planning to do for you on Mother’s Day?

Lisa: They’ve threatened to cook dinner and you know what that means…

Mary: More work for you. I know. The last time the kids cooked dinner, it took me two days to clean up the kitchen. Vanessa told me, “I’m not cleaning up. I cooked.” And the only thing ‘clean-up’ means to Ben is that he gets to bat fourth in the line-up.

Lisa: (Sighs) I can’t wait until our kids are parents. Then they’ll finally appreciate what we go through.

Mary: Trust me, I can wait. I pray every day that I won’t be a grandparent until I’m at least 50.

Lisa: I’m with you. (sips her coffee) What about you? Do you have plans for Mother’s Day?

Mary: Not really. I may take the kids to my mother’s place. .

Lisa: You don’t sound very exciting about it.

Mary: I look forward to Mother’s Day as much as I look forward to a root canal. I look at cards that says all these mushy things about how wonderful she is and how you appreciate how she raised you—things I don’t mean. I wish they would make cards for dysfunctional mothers. “Dear Mother, Thanks to you, two psychiatrists have been able to send their children to college, and four therapists have purchased new cars. Take comfort in knowing that you have contributed to the nation’s economy with your parenting skills. Happy Mother’s Day!”

Lisa: Your mother couldn’t have been that bad. And what parent doesn’t make mistakes? I should know. I’ve made my share.

Mary: I’ve sounded like my mother more times than I like to admit. I vowed I would never manipulate my children with guilt like she did me. And what do I do?

Lisa: Manipulate your children with guilt.

Mary: I vowed that I would never say to my children, “I wish I had never had you.” One time I was so frustrated, I actually said that to Vanessa. She just looked at me with those narrow, angry eyes. And I couldn’t believe I had said it. I had hurt her so deeply. I started crying and apologizing and asking her to forgive me. I’ve re-lived that moment over and over in my head.

Lisa: I get it. There was the time I slapped Tania across the face for talking back to me. I was so triggered. It was my worst moment in parenting. I still regret it.

Mary: I still feel so bad, and I’ve ask Vanessa to forgive me multiple times for what I said. She tells me to forget it, but I can’t. I had heard those words come out of my mother’s mouth more than once. She must have meant it. It just came out so easily. Sometimes—I hate to admit it—but sometimes the only emotion I have for my mother is hate. I know I’m supposed to honor her, but I struggle with knowing how to do that when I feel like she messed up my life.

Lisa: I contemplate my navel.

Mary: What?

Lisa: I stand in front of a mirror, and I look at my belly button.

Mary: That’s weird.

Lisa: I know. It’s a big joke in my house, but it helps.

Mary: Helps?

Lisa: Think about it. For nine months, you were connected to your mother, and she shared her life with you. Everything that went into her system went into yours. That umbilical cord was a life-line that fed me, gave me oxygen, and enabled me to develop. Every time I look at that little hole on my body, I think of my mother. I tell Tania to do the same thing—especially when she’s angry about something I do. Bottom line—if it weren’t for our moms, we wouldn’t be alive.

Mary: If it weren’t for her, I would have a life.

Lisa: I know your mom made mistakes–even some big ones, but you don’t have to like your mother’s parenting to honor her. She did one thing right. She carried you for nine months, and I’m glad she did. Otherwise I’d be sitting here alone, and you know I already talk to myself way too much. When you get home, take a deep breath, look at your belly button, and think about how blessed you are to be alive.

Mary: I’m not sure it will work for me. I haven’t seen my navel since I had kids.

Lisa: (Laughs) Don’t worry—it may be hiding, but it’s still there. Hey, I have another idea! Let get our navels pierced with a “Mom” charm.

Mary: No thanks. Just contemplating my navel is weird enough.

END

Whether your mother was the best of the best or she was less than the best, take a moment to “contemplate your navel” and thank God for her. She carried you while God “knit you together.” She shared her body with you and gave you birth. You were born fearfully and wonderfully made, bearing the stamp of God that gives you dignity and worth. You are not a mistake. You are not unwanted or unloved. You are loved by God and precious. And it all started in your mother womb–God’s creative arts studio. That’s worth contemplating..

“The Diabolical Distraction”

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I’m glad I wasn’t the only pastor offended by the “Pope Trump” photo. For a while, I thought everyone else had dismissed it as just more Trump bombast and buffoonery.

Roman Catholic Bishop Thomas Paprocki of Springfield, IL, posted on X, “This is deeply offensive to Catholics especially during this sacred time that we are still mourning the death of Pope Francis and praying for the guidance of the Holy Spirit for the election of our new Pope. He owes an apology.” Rev. Cameron Trimble wrote on her “Piloting Faith” substack: “It [the photo] shows us what he wants to be: the single, unquestioned authority, not only the most powerful political leader on earth, but a spiritual one, cloaked in divine right. It’s not a joke. It’s a confession.” Atlanta pastor and Grammy award winner Jamal Bryant wrote on Threads, “This is disrespectful and dishonorable. I challenge evangelical leaders to have it removed at once …. Now he wants to be king and pope?” So far, I haven’t found any evangelical leaders who have taken up his challenge.

But it was Rev. William Barber III, who was arrested last Monday in the Capital Rotunda for leading a prayer service, that put the photo into a bigger context, calling it “a diabolical intentional distraction.” He appealed to religious leaders to “pivot back to how his budget will be deadly, destructive, & disastrous to the very people Jesus cared about and will undermine the very hope of America to be a just nation.”

It’s a good point. If everyone is talking the offensiveness of the “Pope Trump” photo, no one will be talking about his “one big, beautiful bill” (ie the budget). Trust me, #47 does NOT want you to know about, think about, talk about or do anything about the budget–and neither does House Speaker, Mike Johnson. That’s because the budget is indeed deadly to the most vulnerable–the very ones we are to care for according to James 1:27.

What makes it so deadly? If the budget proposed by the Office of Budget and Management is approved, every department and agency will experience significant cuts that will impact Medicaid, FEMA, Headstart, Section-8 housing vouchers, SNAP, the environment and more. While many program funds are cut, the budget proposal also includes significant increases for Defense whose total budget will exceed $1 TRILLION for the first time and for Homeland Security whose total budget will top $175 Billion to “finally secure the southern border,” (ie finish the Wall), expand detention facilities for whoever ICE arrests, and increase mass deportations.

In a letter sent on May 2, 2025, to the Senate Committee on Appropriations, OMB Director Russell T. Vought explained the cuts (and increases) in the following way: “The recommended funding levels result from a rigorous, line-by-line review of FY 2025 spending, which was found to be laden with spending contrary to the needs of ordinary working Americans and tilted toward funding niche non-governmental organizations and institutions of higher education committed to radical gender and climate ideologies antithetical to the American way of life.”

Spending contrary to the needs of ordinary working Americans? This budget calls for a $4 billion cut to the Low-Income Home Energy Assistance program (LIHEAP). The logic? These funds won’t be necessary in 2026 since–according to the budget summary–the President is “unleashing energy production” that will drive down prices and everyone–no matter what their income–will be able to afford to heat and cool their homes without government assistance.

All government budgets are moral documents that identify the values and priorities of the administration. This budget is an immoral document that reflects this administration’s priority to reshape the nation to conform to the vision of Project 2025. That’s not surprising since Russell Vought was also the principal architect of that equally immoral document.

He’s Only Joking…

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For the past 4 days, I’ve been in a Restorative Justice training, so I wasn’t able to closely follow the news of the week or write any posts. So this morning, I took some time to catch up on the stories I had missed. I didn’t get very far. One of the first things that caught my eye was a photo (obviously AI generated) of President Trump dressed as the Pope–complete with the papal mitre on his head and large cross hanging from his neck. Initially, I thought someone had posted it as a critique of #47’s quest for power. (“It’s not enough that he wants to be King! Now he wants to be Pope too!) But then I discovered that HE had posted the photo last night at 9:29 pm on his own Truth Social account.

I investigated further. Earlier in the week, the president was asked whom he would like to see elected Pope when the Conclave begins next week. He remarked, “I would like to be Pope.” He later added, “That would be my number 1 choice.”

Of course, Trump was joking. Or was he?

Whether he was joking or not, his “Pope Trump” photo on Truth Social has garnered almost 32,000 ‘likes’ from his followers (and over 7,000 reposts). The official White House X account reposted the photo and has received 183,000+ ‘likes’ (and 49,000 reposts).. Even Senator Lindsey Graham (R – SC) posted on X, “I was excited to hear that President Trump is open to the idea of being the next Pope. This would truly be a dark horse candidate, but I would ask the papal conclave and Catholic faithful to keep an open mind about this possibility! The first Pope-U.S. President combination has many upsides. Watching for white smoke…. Trump MMXXVIII!” Maybe he was joking too. Or was he?

I’ve frequently heard people use the “He’s only joking” phrase to minimize Trump’s most outrageous tweets and posts, but the president’s statements and the photo, in my opinion, cross a line that should deeply offend every Christian of every theological persuasion. It is not funny. It is a mockery of the faith and a derision of the leadership of Pope Francis. Some would go so far as to call it blasphemous since Trump is a convicted felon.

I’ve looked online for faith leaders’ responses to the “Pope Trump” photo, and have been shocked (and disappointed) to find nothing. I cannot imagine silence if President Biden had posted a photo of himself cosplaying the Pope. There would be outrage! Imagine if President Obama had posted a similar photo of himself. There would have been immediate condemnation, a demand for an apology and calls for resignation or even impeachment.

But President Biden and President Obama DIDN’t post photos of themselves holding the symbols of faith or wearing priestly garb. Which makes me wonder why this president has felt so compelled. It would seem (by prior behavior and pronouncements) that he is intent on painting himself as the savior of America and the world in order to amass and maintain power.

Scripture warns: “[False prophets] come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves.” (Matthew 7:15 NIV). They also can come in AI-generated papal robes with a big golden cross. This is no joke.

FYI: The Truth Social and X post statistics were updated as of May 4 at 7 am Central.

God’s DEI Program

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Thirty-nine years ago today, my sister suffered a debilitating stroke. She was just 33 years old. The exact cause of the stroke was never determined. She had none of the medical issues that would increase her risk of stroke. In fact, she had just participated in an 5K race the week before. The stroke left her permanently impaired on her right side, and she lost the full use of her dominant right arm and hand–a condition that required her to learn how to do everything–including writing–with her left hand.

Her body may be impaired, and it may take her an hour for an activity that would take 30 minutes for a person with two hands, but she is not unable to have a meaningful and purpose-filled life. She is a peer mentor for stroke patients; she participates in multiple stroke studies; she assists student doctors and physical therapist in what is called “educational modeling.” She has walked two half-marathons. She has climbed the 103 flights of stairs to the top of the Sears Tower…twice. She has even jumped out of an airplane (skydiving). She ties her shoes with one hand! I still don’t know how she does that, and I’ve tried multiple times to master it without success. I joke that she has done more with half a brain than most people do with a whole brain. It’s actually not a joke. It is accurate. And beneath it all, her faith in God has sustained her through every challenge.

So often, people with disabilities are dismissed and devalued. The word “disability” implies “lack of ability.” People with disabilities are perceived to be “takers” and “dependents” and a “drain on society.” Occasionally, my sister needs help–but who doesn’t? Not one of us is truly fully independent; and not one of us could survive without the supports of social networks and societal programs.

My sister has taught me that abilities come in a variety of forms. And every “body”–every person–regardless of appearance is, in the words of the Psalmist, “fearfully and wonderfully made,” (Psalm 139:14), and all people bear the stamp of God’s image (Genesis 1:26). She has also reminded me that God has purposely chosen and used the undervalued, the underestimated and the overlooked throughout history. In the words of St. Paul in 1 Corinthians 1:27-29, “God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things—and the things that are not—to nullify the things that are, so that no one may boast before [God].”

These verses articulate God’s own DEI program–a program that elevates those who have been cast aside and scapegoated because of their “disability,” their gender, their economic status, their race, their ethnicity, or their documentation. The powerful and the wealthy of the world would discount my sister and others like her. Thankfully, God sees things differently and delights in the diversity of God’s people, opens the doors of equal opportunity and includes them as full-fledged (never second-class) citizens of God’s kin-dom.

And if God chooses the foolish, weak, lowly and despised by the world’s measurements, who are we to reject them? And if we do reject them, how will we justify it before God?

Breathe… (If You Can)

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Over the past three months, I’ve been advised to handle my stress and anxiety by box breathing–the practice of breathing in deeply for 4 counts, holding it for 4 counts, exhaling for 4 counts and holding it for 4 counts–repeat.. I’ve done it and found it to be calming and centering. But, today, I learned that breathing deeply is becoming a challenge for a growing number of people in the US because of air pollution. Particulate matter and ozone in our air are increasing, and nearly half of Americans are breathing unhealthy levels of air pollution according to the American Lung Association’s annual State of the Air report.

Since the passage of the Clean Air Act in 1970, air quality in the US has improved significantly, but It is likely that will change in the coming years. On March 12, 2025, Environmental Protection Agency Administrator Lee Zeldin announced the rollback of environmental regulations, directly impacting the air we rely on to live. Among the proposed changes are relaxing the Mercury and Air Toxics Standards, relaxing the National Emission Standards for hazardous air pollutants for manufacturers and relaxing the Particulate Matter National Ambient Air Quality Standards.

When announcing the rollbacks, Administrator Zeldin said, “Today is the greatest day of deregulation our nation has seen. We are driving a dagger straight into the heart of the climate change religion and ushering in America’s Golden Age.”

It would appear that he is driving a dagger straight into our lungs as well.

The Earth Also Grieves

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With the passing of Pope Francis, the Earth has lost one of its greatest advocates. The Pope’s encyclical, “Laudato Sí,” framed the climate crisis as a moral and spiritual crisis and called out the human hubris that exploits the earth and its resources without thought for the consequences. He was not reticent in naming the excesses of capitalism and the greedy pursuit of wealth as the culprit. For him, the earth’s condition and our care for the our common home was not a political issue or a question of science. Fundamentally, our mistreatment of the planet and our disregard for our symbiotic relationship with the rest of creation is rooted in the sin of idolatry. We act as if we are God. And the earth and its creatures groan. And the poorest among us suffer. And–in the end–we destroy ourselves.

On this Earth Day, let us be reminded of our proper role–not as owners, but as caretakers; not as creators, but fellow creatures. We are inextricably linked to our environment. What happens to the earth ultimately happens to us. If we love our children and grandchildren, we must love the planet and do all we can to protect it.

There is no “Planet B.”

Remembering Pope Francis

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The world lost a great leader today. Pope Francis showed us that the way of Jesus–humble, merciful and tender-hearted–was not weak and ineffectual, but powerful. He got my respect immediately when he rejected the papal mansion in favor of a modest apartment. And my respect only increased as he washed the feet of prisoners and Muslim women. He blessed children, embraced people with disabilities and affirmed the dignity of the poor. He demonstrated compassion for those on the margins and grace towards those considered unredeemable. He apologized for the church’s role in the erasure of indigenous culture and openly and regularly expressed his opposition to the onslaught in Gaza–including a condemnation of the “deplorable humanitarian situation” and a call for a ceasefire yesterday–Easter Sunday.

He was not perfect. Who is? But he reminded us that be a follower of Jesus is to follow the way of peace, justice and love. Pope Francis took the call to serve others seriously–with special attention to the ‘least of these” among us. May we take up the basin and towel as he did and shine with the light of Christ as he did.

And may the those who aspire to leadership be reminded by the life and witness of Pope Francis that influence and respect are not gained by authoritarian force or manipulation, but by sacrificial love and service.

Rest in peace, Pope Francis. Well done.

Budgets Are Moral Documents

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On Tuesday, February 25, the US House of Representatives passed a budget by the slimmest of margins (217-215). Once a budget is passed by the House, it goes to the Senate, where it will likely be met with a competing budget that will have to go through a process of “reconciliation.” The final budget may look different from the House version–at least I hope so.

The budget passed by the House was exactly what the President wanted–$4.5 trillion in tax cuts, about $2 trillion in spending cuts, but with spending increases in the hundreds of billions of dollars for the military and border security over the next 10 years..

So who suffers from the spending cuts? Though the budget is not specific to program, it is widely assumed that the cuts will be targeted at programs that make up the safety net for poor and working families–programs like Medicaid (healthcare), Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program – aka SNAP (hunger), and HeadStart (early childhood education).

And who benefits from the tax cuts? The budget proposal extends the President’s previous tax cuts which reduced corporate rates from 35% to 21%. Tesla (owned by Elon Musk) has paid NOTHING in federal taxes in 2 of the last 3 years despite making a profit in each year. And giving tax cuts to the wealthy increases the national debt. The Committee for a Responsible Federal Budget estimates that the deficit would increase at least $2.8 trillion to the deficit in the next 10 years. (see Financial Times).

In the end, most of us lose with this budget. Budgets that make the rich richer on the backs of the poor aren’t just unfair, they are immoral. Proverbs 22:16 speaks to the immorality of robbing the poor and giving gifts to the rich. “One who oppresses the poor to increase his wealth and one who gives gifts to the rich—both come to poverty.” God’s justice protects the afflicted. Jesus announced his mission to “announce good news to the poor.” This budget is an announcement of bad news for anyone already struggling. Reducing SNAP benefits while grocery prices continue to rise is condemning children and seniors to malnutrition. Cutting Medicaid is sentencing people to sickness and death. Cutting HeadStart is delivering children to the school to prison pipeline. Every cut to the social safety net is a cut to the heart of Jesus.

These cuts expose the truth. The very same people who called for the elimination of foreign aid so we can take care of the problems in the US, actually have no interest in helping people or solving social problems. The cuts make it obvious that their priority is their own wealth and power. And God has a name for that: idolatry.

Now is the time to tell our Senators that we will not accept a budget that delivers hardship to those already suffering. We will not accept any cuts to Medicaid, SNAP, HeadStart or any other social program that protects the vulnerable and is necessary to their survival. We. will not accept an immoral, idolatrous budget. Period.

Justice Takes Sides

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My wife has a collection of T-shirts that express a variety of opinions depending on the circumstances. One says, simply, “Ugh!’ (She got that one while running a school during COVID.) Another shouts, “I dissent,” quoting Ruth Bader Ginsburg. (She dissents a lot lately.) Yet another defiantly declares, “We will not go back.” Last week, she announced that she has found her next T-shirt. It says “Justice Takes Sides.”

The T-shirt is available at https://justicetakessides.com, a site developed by Dr. Jemar Tisby, a public historian, author, speaker and a Christian.. I regularly follow his Substack, “Footnotes”. Here’s why he created the T-shirt:

Elie Wiesel, a holocaust survivor and the recipient of the 1986 Nobel Peace Prize, included the following statement in his acceptance speech:

We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented. Sometimes we must interfere.

Neutrality has consequences. As Tisby writes: “Neutrality in situations of injustice only supports the status quo. It only aids the empowered and further harms the disempowered.”

The prophets of Hebrew Scripture took sides, calling out and condemning injustice and demanding accountability for the perpetrators of oppression. There was no space for neutrality; no room for fence-sitting. .

Isaiah shouts: “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!” (Isaiah 5:20 – NRSVUE) and “Woe to those who make iniquitous decrees, who write oppressive statutes, to turn aside the needy from justice and to rob the poor of my people of their right, to make widows their spoil and to plunder orphans!” (Isaiah 10:1-2 – NRSVUE)

Jeremiah cries out: “Woe to him who builds his house by unrighteousness and his upper rooms by injustice, who makes his neighbors work for nothing and does not give them their wages.” (Jeremiah 22:13 – NRSVUE)

Amos calls out: “Woe to those who lie on beds of ivory and lounge on their couches and eat lambs from the flock and calves from the stall…, who drink wine from bowls and anoint themselves with the finest oils but are not grieved over the ruin of Joseph!” (Amos 6:4, 6 – NRSVUE)

And in the tradition of the prophets, Jesus announces: ““Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you clean the outside of the cup and of the plate, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence.” (Matthew 23:25 – NRSVUE)

In this precarious time, it is the right time to ask ourselves, “Which side am I on?” The side of justice or the side of oppression? The side of the prophets or the side of the oppressors? The side of truth or the side of disinformation and alternative facts? The side of the marginalized or the side of the powerful? The side of healing or the side of harm?

When the most vulnerable are being sacrificed on the altar of “efficiency” and threatened by the forces of “unbridled greed”, sitting on the fence isn’t an option. Because sitting on the fence is actually taking the side of injustice.

The Lie of Inevitability

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Y’all have heard the quote: “Absolute power corrupts absolutely.” I’ve heard it; I’ve seen it; I’ve affirmed its truth. I’ve also listened to others speak it with a despairing tone. No matter how much we want justice, truth and integrity to thrive, it won’t happen. Those with power will be corrupted. And corruption will ultimately win. It’s too late. There is nothing that can be done about it. It is inevitable.

Psalm 11 is written by David as a response to people who are watching the foundations of the social order crumbling around them. They see what is happening: “The foundations of law and order have collapsed! What can the righteous do?” In their minds, the only option in the face of this inevitable collapse is to find the exit. They say, “Fly like a bird to the mountains for safety!”

But David refuses to flee. He refuses to believe the lie of inevitability and the despair that leads to giving up. He writes: “I trust in the Lord for protection.” David’s not going anywhere. Instead of “flight,” he is going to stick around to “fight”, trusting in the God of justice and righteousness.

Let me go back to the quote ab out corrupting power. When English Catholic historian Lord Dalberg-Acton wrote it in 1887 in a letter to a Bishop , it was not to state the inevitable, but to issue a warning of the dangers of concentrated authority. Power becomes abusive and corrupt when there are no checks, no guardrails, no resistance. Concentrated authority is the problem. Steadfast resistance to autocracy is the solution.

Sherrylin Ifill, a civil rights attorney, writes on her Substack:

Despair and believing that you are powerless is a form of “obeying in advance” which ensures the victory of autocracy. I understand the exhaustion, anger, the feeling of being overwhelmed and the grief that those of us who believe in democracy, equality and justice are experiencing right now. And painful as it is, I have accepted that there are no guarantees that we can overcome all that we are facing. But I do know that unless we fight, we cannot prevail.”

Autocracy wants us to believe that we are powerless. Autocracy thrives on despair. When someone asks, “What can the righteous do?, autocracy is standing behind us, whispering in our ear, “There’s nothing you can do, so do nothing.” But it’s a lie.

What can the righteous do? The are many ways to resist autocracy, but the one way that is available to 100% of us is to raise our voice. Whether it be on the street in non-violent protest or calling our elected representatives and senators to voice our demands as their constituents, our voices can make a difference. Don’t know who represents you? Don’t what to say? 5calls.org is a simple tool to help you speak clearly and simply on issues you care about. I used it today. I encourage you to check it out.

Let’s stand firm in our faith and act for God’s justice. Remember the word of the Psalmist: “The righteous Lord loves justice. The virtuous will see [God’s] face.” (Psalm 11:7)